TUESDAY 24 MARCH 2026
SATURDAY 13 JUNE 2026


THE #TUSCANY WEDDING CELEBRATION


Our more ceremonial wedding will take place in Montalcino, a small Medieval town in Tuscany, on June 13th, 2026. This summer date will be housed in the middle of a long weekend family holiday in Montalcino. We want to celebrate both our past together as a couple, and of course our future, with a slow, intentional getaway with close family and friends.

You’re invited to join this intimate gathering and be a part of the celebration! Special consideration has been given to food, drinks, and leisure, three of our six most favorite things. 





WHEN & WHERE


Thursday, June 11th - Monday, June 15, 2026

Antico Convento i Cappuccini
Strada Provinciale 14 km 38.5 
53024 Montalcino SI, Italy

Stepping foot onto the grounds of our venue is like transporting into the pages of a fairytale, Blue’s Clues style. Aside from the stunning architecture, this convent features sprawling lawns, tucked-away corners, a pool, and a fantastic view of a nearby winery. Bring your swimsuit, sunbathing gear, and a pool noodle!

Here is a loose itinerary of the weekend to give an idea of the general schedule you should plan for:

Thursday 4pm:Check-in for family staying at venue. Optional plein air pastel session 
Friday afternoon: Nearby winery tour
Friday early evening: Welcome dinner (pool + pizza party!)
Saturday morning: Guided yoga and meditation
Saturday 3:30pm: Wedding ceremony
Saturday evening: Aperitivo, dinner, and reception
Sunday afternoon: Family-style BBQ 
Monday 10am: Check-out for family staying at venue

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WHERE TO STAY
& WHAT TO DO


Some of our close family and friends will be staying at the venue, but for those who aren’t, there are an abundance of hotels, AirBnBs, and traditional BnBs nearby. We will be updating with venue co-signed recos soon!

Please note that June is the beginning of peak tourism season in Tuscany! It is advised that you secure your stay sooner than later.

Given the jaw-dropping views, air, wine, and food, it is also encouraged that you soak up as much of the beauty as you can in the days surrounding our weekend together. If you plan to enter the region early and/or stay later, check out our list of recommendations for what to do, where to eat, what towns to visit, etc.!

And in that vein, we highly recommend anyone who can to try and get to Italy a little bit early so that your bodies and bellies can get adjusted (you’ll enjoy the celebration and food much more if your circadian rhythyms and appetites are aligned with the time zone). Whichever city you fly into, or somewhere in Tuscany, will do great when it comes to getting you accustomed to the eating times and large portions.

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TRANSPORTATION


Flights:
The two closest airports to the venue are Florence (FLR) and Rome (FCO). Rome is a 3 hour drive from Montalcino, but there are direct flights from major cities across the US, where most of you live. Florence is closer, about a 2 hour drive, but there are no direct flights from anywhere in the US. All flights there will have a layover somewhere in Europe, depending on the airline. We visited via a nonstop flight to Rome ourselves and had a smooth time at the airport, getting through customs, and renting a car.

Cars:
Speaking of renting a car, for anyone able to do so, we HIGHLY RECOMMEND renting a car, the best and easiest method to get to the venue and explore Tuscany. For anyone unable to or uncomfortable with driving in Italy, we will either find someone for you to carpool with or arrange for alternate transport at a set time (from Florence only; Rome is too far to facilitate arranged transport). 

When booking, be sure to specify automatic if you don't know how to drive stick, as the cheapest options will be manual. The roads in Tuscany, particularly in the towns, can be fairly narrow, so we'd recommend sticking with a small-to-medium sized vehicle to make navigating them easier. 

NOTE: If flying into Rome a few days early or staying to explore for a while afterward, we do not recommend using a car to explore the city. It is a very walkable city, with simple-to-navigate transit options, and parking is limited and expensive. Picking up your car from the airport just before you leave for Tuscany/ returning your car as soon as you re-enter the city  after the wedding is best; you can take a taxi to and from the airport easily.

Getting to the villa:
As seen in the above video, the trip to Montalcino takes you on a scenic journey along gorgeous winding roads and past rolling, luxurious hills. For detailed instructions for where to go when you’re getting close, [CLICK HERE].





RSVP


Please let us know if you will be able to attend by February 14th

Additionally, let us know of any food allergies and/or dietary restrictions that we and the chef should be aware of.

As most of you know, we are pescatarian so, barring vegan/gluten-free options, our main course will be a traditional fish dish. If seafood isn’t your thing though, let us know and we will make accommodations.  

[RSVP HERE]





VILLA
ACCOMMODATION


We’re excited to sculpt an intimate, close experience with everyone: those of you who will be staying elsewhere nearby, and those staying at the villa.

For said villa-dwellers, as mentioned in your save-the-dates, the cost is approximately ~$100 per person/night. If you can contribute toward your stay, please do so at the link below!

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ATTIRE & DRESS CODE


This is summertime!!! It should be nice and balmy, so feel free to let your attire reflect that. 

That being said, Saturday’s ceremony is a semi-formal to formal event. Think what you’d wear to an upscale restaurant: satin slip dresses, linen suits, blouses with skirts, dress shirts with slacks, sharp jumpsuits, dress shorts, floral patterns, kaftans, etc.! The formal bit is for those who love an excuse to dress up even more: go crazy. For everyone in the semi-formal camp: just please no business casual. We don’t want to think about our commercial obligations.

Steer clear of dark colors. And no pastels. Easter will have passed already, and as you’ve probably noticed, the infinite joy of the color wheel is a key part of our theme! Explore the worlds of bold blues (no navy please), fire engine reds (yes red is ok!), fun yellows, grass greens, pinks, and more.

Save the whites for the March NYC wedding; for neutrals to pad your colors, try beiges, tans, and greys. For this wedding, the bride and groom will be wearing white, with all of you guests bringing the vibrant color!

Reference the above image for inspo, as well as a look at our colors!

And you can check out this article for more information about semi-formal wedding attire!

Lastly of course: check the weather before you go!





SPEECHES


We ask for everyone to bring a passage about love and partnership that means something to you; this can be a poem, a faith-based passage, a section of prose, lyrics to a song,... whatever speaks to you as important to pass along to us in this new phase of our lives! If you print them out, we will put them together in a guestbook to cherish and reflect upon.

If you’d like to give a speech, you are welcome to share *heartfelt but pithy* thoughts during our reception, using your passage as an anchor!

You do not have to read your chosen passage aloud, but if you’re wanting to give a speech, then please be prepared to do so. Thank you!!!





QUESTIONS??


Check out this [FAQ] list. Maybe the answer is there!

Otherwise email us! Or send us a voice note! And if those tactics fail, try astral projecting.







REGISTRY


We’ve been sharing stuff in different versions of homes since 2014, from dorm rooms to windowless, profoundly dismal apartments to some truly cozy, restorative spaces. Therefore, there’s actually few newlywed things we still need, but admittedly some things we’d love.

We’re big on making memories together through travel and exploration though, so on our registry you’ll see cash funds for different honeymoon experiences, in addition to some items and charities. Thank you for any and all contributions!

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THE #NYC WEDDING CELEBRATION


Our official, legal wedding date will be March 24th, 2026, our anniversary. We’ll be married at the courthouse in Brooklyn, New York in the presence of our longest and most dedicated witnesses, Nora Ashwood and Omar Monroy, as well as our photographer. Our dog Dorian will be waiting outside with our parents, other siblings, and close friends.

We invite you to come celebrate with us afterward with a special dinner hosted at Hupo Szechuan! There will be music, a delicious fixed Szechuan menu, titilating drinks, and of course, cake.





WHEN & WHERE


6 pm til late

HUPO Szechuan
10-07 50th Ave 
Long Island City, NY 
11101

This is one of our favorite restaurants back from when we spent over five years living in Queens. They don’t yet have a star but are in the Michelin guide! We can’t wait to share with you all of their worldly flavors that have made us weep on many occasions.

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WHERE TO STAY
& WHAT TO DO


This dinner is being held in Long Island City, a part of Queens that is quite accessible from midtown Manhattan and parts of upper Brooklyn. If you’re coming from out of town, try to prioritize hotels or AirBnBs nearer to the restaurant; it can be far to get to from some parts of the city!

Take note that this date does fall on a Tuesday and that dinner starts around 6 pm: you might be traveling during rush hour. Leaving your place of residence a little early should help avoid any MTA/grid-lock issues!

Lastly, if you’re coming for a long weekend the dates prior, it may still be a bit chilly or even wet! But there are many exciting things going on in the city in late March, like the New York Botanical Garden’s Annual Orchid Show, the Biennial Showcase at the Whitney Museum of American Art, performances at the MET Opera, and more!





RSVP


Please let us know if you will be able to attend by February 14th

Additionally, let us know of any food allergies and/or dietary restrictions that we and the chefs should be aware of.

[RSVP HERE]





ATTIRE & DRESS CODE


This is early, early springtime!!! Almost still winter, some would say. It’s a toss up of whether or not it will be wet and/or very cold, so keep that in mind. 

This Tuesday evening affair is a cocktail attire event. This means a touch more elevated than semi-formal, with structure and gravitas: what you might wear to an evening cocktail party. Think pant suits, skirt suits, cape suits, jumpsuits, and cocktail dresses.

The bride and groom will be dressed in rich color, and would love for all guests to wear bridal whites, ivories, or creams, head to toe, to root the occasion in a nuptial space.  

Reference the above image for inspo!

And you can check out this article for more information about cocktail wedding attire!

Lastly of course: check the weather before you come!





SPEECHES


We‘ll have time for limited loving remarks during the dinner celbration. If you’d like to give a speech, you are welcome to share *heartfelt but pithy* thoughts! Just reach out to the bride and groom before March so that the appropriate amount of time can be allocated.





QUESTIONS??


Check out this [FAQ] list. Maybe the answer is there!

Otherwise email us! Or send us a voice note! And if those tactics fail, try astral projecting.







REGISTRY


We’ve been sharing stuff in different versions of homes since 2014, from dorm rooms to windowless, profoundly dismal apartments to some truly cozy, restorative spaces. Therefore, there’s actually few newlywed things we still need, but admittedly some things we’d love.

We’re big on making memories together through travel and exploration though, so on our registry you’ll see cash funds for different honeymoon experiences, in addition to some items and charities. Thank you for any and all contributions!

[VISIT]





PLAYLIST/VIBE-SETTER


Enjoy our nuptial [PLAYLIST] in the meantime!